Like of lot of folks I am probably here too much lol. But its harmless fun, right? For me, sex that is playful, and always consensual, is best. Its all about imagination and communication. I can't abide actual pain, either physical or emotional, but do sometimes enjoy role playing along those lines, including submission games, spanking, and exposure. Not bi insofar that I am not attracted to men, but not afraid of a cock either.